LITTLE THINGS

Lord, in the little things, I pray,
The unrecorded, everyday,
Passing events, may I take joy.
May I have always a small-boy
Mind that can give itself to each
Moment and does not have to reach
Forever for what is not there,
But finds contentment anywhere;
For I would have no need of wings
But what the winged moment brings.

How few the triumphs or defeats
That the most noted person meets!
But every moment, thought by thought
And act by act, a life is wrought,
A life is lived—and I would learn
To live each moment in its turn.
Lord, in the little things, I pray,
The little acts of every day,
Let me find joy. Then I shall be
Contented with eternity.
James Dillet Freeman

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On the soul level, I’ve been feeling a tad depressed, but I’m reading The Re-enchantment of Everyday Life

It’s one of the most soulful, healing, and encouraging books I’ve read. Thomas Moore weaves a web of soulful stories; encouraging readers to re-enchant every day life and believe in “magic.”

If you’re looking for a good Christmas gift to share with a friend- especially one going through a tough time, this book comes with my blessing.

It’s cooling down here. The weather guy said to expect a “seasonal” Thanksgiving. I’m very excited to be spending with David and friends, but I’m missing my family– Nothing beats Mom’s Thanksgiving.

Love to all,

Josh

I’m in Tampa, and for the next few days, it’s just God and me.  I know that sounds lame, but so be it.

Once upon a time, there was a dude named Jacob.  He had pissed off his brother, and let me tell ya- the brotha wanted to bus’ a cap in Jacob’s ass.   So, Jacob fled to a distant land, started a family, became fairly wealthy, and waited for his brother to stop bing pissed.

The whole time Jacob was with his family- they never really understood who he was.  It wasn’t that they didn’t love him, or WANT to understand, but he was without his roots, his culture, without what was worth pissing his brother off for.

He decided to return home– to show his family who he really was- to find his roots. . .and to live in the land God promised him.

During his trek home, Jacob reached a ford (not the car!) called “Jabbok.”  Literally translated, it was “The place of deadness.”

He sent his family over the stream, but lingered behind to pray.  There he was- all alone- with nothing but what he needed to survive keeping him company.

That night, a man appeared and began to wrestle with Jacob.  For hours and hours, Jacob struggled with the mysterious man.

Finally, as the sun was beginning to rise, the man cried out for Jacob to release him.  “I won’t let go until you bless me,” Jacob cried.  With that, the man reached out, touched Jacob’s hip, and immediately it popped out of place.  Determined to win the blesssing, Jacob kept struggling with the (obviously supernatural) man.

The man eventually gave up, and blessed Jacob- chaning his name to “Israel” which means “Prince with God.”  Much better than Jacob, which means “liar.”

My family and (some) friends don’t understand how much I NEED to go to California- Spirit is drawing me there, and I don’t exactly know why.  David is an obvious reason, but I think this is about my unfoldment as an individual, too.  I can’t help but draw some inspiration and insight from the biblical myth story I just shared with you.  Check this out . .

1. Jacob left his family and his stuff to go where he felt he needed to be.  Even though the place he needed to be seemed undesirable.  (I don’t think I’d ever name an amusement park “Place of Deadness!”)
2. Jacob was in this undesirable place with nothing but what he needed to survive.
3. He struggled his ass off.
4. Then he struggled his hip off. . . but he kept fighting.
5. He earned his blessing.

This encounter is what is described in theological terms as a Theophany- a visible manifstation of God.  Why?  Jacob named the place “Peniel” meaning “I have seen God face to face and lived.”

From that day forward, Jacob walked with a limp.  The man never healed him.  Sometimes, when you’re truly blessed, you’re marked by it.  This lesson touched Jacob. . . limp and all, he was NEVER the same.  So, friends, as I wrestle, I’ll keep a smile on my face.  I know the blesser is here with me now, and as my blessing unfolds, I will NEVER be the same.

Love,

Josh
P.S. I’m in Tampa now, so if you live there, hit me up on my cell phone (863) 257-3411!

]]> http://sanemedia.net/mylife/2006/10/19/greuenwold-cottage/feed/ 1 http://sanemedia.net/mylife/2006/04/28/my-one/ http://sanemedia.net/mylife/2006/04/28/my-one/#comments Fri, 28 Apr 2006 07:25:29 +0000 Josh http://sanemedia.net/mylife/archives/27 I talked with him today- the love of my life.

This is him, my “one.”

I thought I had found love before, but I had no comprehension of the term. He’s amazing in every way, and not a day goes by that I don’t think of him.

Now, before you pass any judgements on the “Long Distance Relationship” thing, hear me out. David and I met by accident. We aren’t really sure how, but we had appeared on each other’s AIM buddy list. Our first words to each other were “Who are you?”

I was sitting at my desk, newly hired on as the network administrator for a Golf Resort, and had just installed Trillian. I logged in, and suddenly, up popped

“Who are you?”
I replied with . . “I’m Josh. Who are you?”
“David.”
I typed “Hi, David. Do I know you?”
“I was just about to ask you the same thing.”
“Well, David, there are only a few reasons why I’d be on your buddy list,” I typed, “I’m a computer nerd, I’m a magician, and I’m gay. Are you any of those?”
“I’m a computer nerd, and I’m gay too,” he typed.
“Awesome.”
“I’m at work, but I get off tonight if you want to type more,” He invited conversation- this is a good thing. “Okay, I work late, but I’ll try to be on around ten.” I was intrigued.
“Bye”
“Bye”

It’s not the most glorious of “first chats,” but it was ours.

Later that night, I logged on. I felt rather silly for waiting around for a guy I didn’t know, but something told me he might be important. The Resort had been taking a lot out of me- early days and late nights, but it served as a wonderful distraction from my pain. You see, a few months earlier, the guy I thought I’d be with forever left me $6,000 poorer than I had started- for my best friend. Of course, not before trying to kill me.

Work was a welcome distraction from the silent clutches of my empty life. Sure, I had friends and a good relationship with my parents, but sleeping alone was strange and I didn’t want to think about it. As you’ll see from my chat, I probably wasn’t ready for him, but I’m so thankful he was ready for me.

We had chatted for a few minutes before this log was saved, so . . join in the conversation.

It happened March 19, 2004

COrPsys2000 (1:18:59 AM): lol
JoshuNoShougai wants to directly connect (1:19:19 AM).
COrPsys2000 cancels request; no connection was made. (Note: For best results, you and your buddy should use the latest version of AIM.) (1:19:36 AM).
COrPsys2000 wants to directly connect (1:19:37 AM).
JoshuNoShougai (1:19:54 AM): There. I clicked accept- it should be all good.
COrPsys2000 (1:20:15 AM): nm
COrPsys2000 (1:20:17 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (1:21:21 AM): ???
JoshuNoShougai (1:22:18 AM): Just hoping against hope.
COrPsys2000 (1:22:31 AM): lol
JoshuNoShougai (1:22:54 AM): I connect w/ people through this all the time. I just don’t understand.
COrPsys2000 (1:23:12 AM): dont worry bout it
JoshuNoShougai (1:23:14 AM): *breathes* Let it go, Josh…. Just let it go. . . lol
JoshuNoShougai (1:23:28 AM): ^_^
JoshuNoShougai (1:23:52 AM): Well, if you wanna send whatever you were sending- you may send via email to sanesolutions@earthlink.net
COrPsys2000 (1:24:33 AM): it was just a pic of me….
JoshuNoShougai (1:24:44 AM): My BC profile address is http://www.biggercity.com/magijosh
JoshuNoShougai (1:25:21 AM): Well, I know it must be cute. . because 99% of nice guys are.
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COrPsys2000 (1:29:09 AM): brb
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JoshuNoShougai (1:29:34 AM): okay.
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COrPsys2000 (1:54:45 AM): im back
JoshuNoShougai (1:54:52 AM): wb
COrPsys2000 (1:56:29 AM): so sup
JoshuNoShougai (1:56:57 AM): Not much here- just looking through the contest on bc . .
JoshuNoShougai (1:57:05 AM): hoping I’ll find someone nice.
JoshuNoShougai (1:57:06 AM): lol
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COrPsys2000 (1:59:27 AM): you know… i used to go through the personals on BC and i would always see your prof. and think he has got to be fun and outgoing… probably taken
JoshuNoShougai (2:00:31 AM): I thought I was taken- til my boy left me for my best friend back in jan.
COrPsys2000 (2:00:46 AM):
COrPsys2000 (2:00:50 AM): sorry
JoshuNoShougai (2:01:22 AM): I’m not. He didn’t love me- so I was wasting my time.
COrPsys2000 (2:01:32 AM):
JoshuNoShougai (2:01:57 AM): I’m all about not wasting time, ya know? Life is too busy to be worrying about stuff.
COrPsys2000 (2:02:05 AM): true
JoshuNoShougai (2:02:24 AM): I could spend my time being angry (and trust me, I was) or bitter (I’m trying not to be) . . but it’s not worth it.
JoshuNoShougai (2:02:33 AM): It’ll just kill me sooner.
COrPsys2000 (2:03:20 AM): so tell me about yourself?
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JoshuNoShougai (2:04:38 AM): My ambition- my goal- my desire- is that when I’ve finished my life- I can honestly say that I lived my own life. .
JoshuNoShougai (2:05:15 AM): I try to be uniquely myself- and happy.
JoshuNoShougai (2:05:40 AM): Ummm. . I’m not too bad on the “looks” side of things. I’ve only blinded a few people.
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JoshuNoShougai (2:06:13 AM): I spend most of my free time hanging out @ a gourmet store in downtown Sebring- I’ve become good friends with the owners . .
JoshuNoShougai (2:06:49 AM): Yay for Soppresetta and Raspberry Wasabi!
JoshuNoShougai (2:07:23 AM): I always try to find the humor in things. . . even though It’s somewhat dark humor.
COrPsys2000 (2:08:09 AM): true
JoshuNoShougai (2:08:10 AM): Now that I’ve filled you with one-line blurbs about myself- you’re most likely sleeping ^_^
COrPsys2000 (2:09:05 AM): no
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COrPsys2000 (2:14:00 AM): im sorry im not talkative.. i am cleaning my apt off and on
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JoshuNoShougai (2:14:10 AM): You’re a very quiet David. It’s tough to get most Davids I know to be quiet.
JoshuNoShougai (2:14:35 AM): Of course, I worked in an Office with three people named David . .
JoshuNoShougai (2:14:56 AM): They were accountants- and accountants are very boisterous people.
JoshuNoShougai (2:15:06 AM): It’s okay, D, I should be doing the same, but I’m not.
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COrPsys2000 (2:17:42 AM): and done..
JoshuNoShougai (2:17:52 AM):
COrPsys2000 (2:20:00 AM): so what are you lookin for in a guy
JoshuNoShougai (2:20:34 AM): That’s an excellent question. . .
JoshuNoShougai (2:21:00 AM): Romance, for one thing . . someone who can be sweet- and’ll let me be sweet too . .
JoshuNoShougai (2:21:18 AM): Honesty is #1, though, because I can’t help but carry baggage from my ex.
COrPsys2000 (2:21:57 AM): true
JoshuNoShougai (2:23:02 AM): My ultimate Mr. Right . . would let me be completely vulnerable . . and he’d stay completely sweet. . but that’d be my life partner. .if he’d do likewise.
JoshuNoShougai (2:23:55 AM): It may sound like a bunch of unattainable stuff, but I’m certain Mr. Right is out there. . .
COrPsys2000 (2:28:02 AM): well just so ya know…. I am 5’9 290 the cuddlyest teddy in the world… could’nt hurt a fly… Masculent (i do have afew manurisms i picked up from the club) blue eyes blonde hair… trusting… always placing others needs before my own…. and to prove it all i have not a 1 enemy or person who has taken me for a mean person..
JoshuNoShougai (2:29:25 AM): That is a very sweet description.
COrPsys2000 (2:29:42 AM):
JoshuNoShougai (2:29:42 AM): I’m also a “no enemies” guy.
JoshuNoShougai (2:29:47 AM): ^_^
COrPsys2000 (2:31:38 AM): i am looking for that person who will make me whole… a masc to neutral guy who is sweet kind funny outgoing and compromising (not Dominant or submisive)
COrPsys2000 (2:33:14 AM): basically i am looking for my matching card… in this game of pick and choose
JoshuNoShougai (2:33:27 AM): Yeah . .
JoshuNoShougai (2:33:35 AM): Matching card . . I like that.
COrPsys2000 (2:34:12 AM):
COrPsys2000 (2:34:23 AM):
COrPsys2000 (2:35:55 AM): hello?
JoshuNoShougai (2:36:01 AM): I’m here.
COrPsys2000 (2:36:17 AM): you got quiet yourself there hehe
COrPsys2000 (2:36:24 AM): so how old are ya?
JoshuNoShougai (2:36:49 AM): I’m a youngn’
JoshuNoShougai (2:36:56 AM): 22
COrPsys2000 (2:37:03 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (2:37:11 AM): im younger 20
COrPsys2000 (2:37:15 AM): hehe
JoshuNoShougai (2:37:17 AM): Really?
COrPsys2000 (2:37:33 AM): yep… hope that doesn’t bother you
JoshuNoShougai (2:37:47 AM): OMG!!!! I was so scared you were going to say 45
JoshuNoShougai (2:38:01 AM): I’m actually laughing with relief.
COrPsys2000 (2:38:01 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (2:38:47 AM): ok i cant lie to you you are too sweet i am really 13
JoshuNoShougai (2:39:32 AM): There’s quite a difference between 20 and 13, dear.
COrPsys2000 (2:40:19 AM): LMAO j/k… my bday is in 12/83 i can show my birth cirtificate i am 20 … just some sick humor of my own
JoshuNoShougai (2:40:53 AM): I pretty much knew- – because most 13 year olds wouldn’t use the word “masc” to describe masculine.
JoshuNoShougai (2:41:08 AM): But then I thought . . ut oh . . what if he’s had a really bad childhood.
JoshuNoShougai (2:41:08 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (2:41:09 AM): that was cute… your whole parent figure lingo took over…
JoshuNoShougai (2:41:19 AM):
JoshuNoShougai (2:42:14 AM): I’m an uncle. . what can I say?
JoshuNoShougai (2:42:41 AM): My nephew’s nine . . and that’s only four years away from 13.
COrPsys2000 (2:42:42 AM): lol… so am i… my neice is 7 this dec.
JoshuNoShougai (2:43:12 AM): I have another nephew who’ll be four in July.
COrPsys2000 (2:43:16 AM): she is my pride and joy
JoshuNoShougai (2:43:23 AM): Same with my nephews.
JoshuNoShougai (2:43:41 AM): When I moved to WA State two summers ago- – I cried because I missed them.
JoshuNoShougai (2:44:52 AM): So, KS is your home state?
COrPsys2000 (2:45:00 AM): i cant tell my sis about who i am… she is phobic… and would never let me see my neice again… that would be the end of the world for me…
COrPsys2000 (2:45:06 AM): no
COrPsys2000 (2:45:13 AM): FL is my home state
COrPsys2000 (2:45:31 AM): just thinkin of movin for business oppertunities
JoshuNoShougai (2:45:42 AM): OIC
COrPsys2000 (2:45:52 AM): and the right guy just has not come along for me
COrPsys2000 (2:46:23 AM): so i am thinkin he must have moved out of state ya know… hehe
JoshuNoShougai (2:46:30 AM): I thought I was soooo set. *SURPRISE!*
COrPsys2000 (2:46:46 AM): ???
JoshuNoShougai (2:46:48 AM): You’ll have the right guy, I’m sure. Good things take time, babe.
JoshuNoShougai (2:46:59 AM): Well, with my bf . . I thought for sure I had Mr. Right. .
JoshuNoShougai (2:47:06 AM): Okay, that was a lie.
COrPsys2000 (2:47:19 AM): Grrr… Time is of the essence
JoshuNoShougai (2:47:24 AM): I had an underlying feeling of “Him? Really?”
COrPsys2000 (2:47:34 AM):
COrPsys2000 (2:47:44 AM): its hard to let go isn’t it
COrPsys2000 (2:47:48 AM): ???
JoshuNoShougai (2:48:05 AM): You do know you’re allowed to enjoy life being single, right?
JoshuNoShougai (2:48:12 AM): Yes and no.
JoshuNoShougai (2:48:38 AM): I have good and bad days.
JoshuNoShougai (2:48:48 AM): Ya’ caught me on a bad one.
COrPsys2000 (2:49:03 AM): i was with my first BF for 5 yrs… and one bad day was all it took to break us up…It has now been 3 yrs and i am ready to stop being single
JoshuNoShougai (2:49:12 AM): My best friend is breaking up with her boyfriend . . and it just stirred up some sad feelings- listening to her cry.
COrPsys2000 (2:49:37 AM): it took over 2.5 yrs to be ready though
COrPsys2000 (2:49:51 AM):
COrPsys2000 (2:49:55 AM): sorry to hear that
JoshuNoShougai (2:50:22 AM): Not to be forward or anything- but I might be a quick healer. *grins*
JoshuNoShougai (2:50:24 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (2:50:27 AM): i think your great and he was an ass hole to cheat on an angel such as yourself
COrPsys2000 (2:51:16 AM): someone will scoop you up real quick… your a catch and a half
JoshuNoShougai (2:51:20 AM): I’m a firm believer that everyone does the best they possibly can. No one wants to screw things up . . people do their best- but some things just aren’t cool.
JoshuNoShougai (2:52:06 AM): Moi? I’ve only had three unique people respond to my personal. . .
COrPsys2000 (2:52:23 AM): Psychos! right
JoshuNoShougai (2:52:37 AM): One calls me beautiful and delicious . . one is very close to my Dad’s age . .
JoshuNoShougai (2:52:54 AM): and the other guy is in his mid 40′s and lives in connecticut.
JoshuNoShougai (2:53:14 AM): Beautiful & delicious guy sent me the same eNote five times in the last two weeks.
JoshuNoShougai (2:53:27 AM): Meaning- he’s a hooker-upper.
JoshuNoShougai (2:54:31 AM): *puts on some Josh Groban*
COrPsys2000 (2:54:56 AM): same here one was mean and racist, another turned into an overbearing stalker after meeting him for the first time, and the last one wont talk to me anymore because i told him i wanted to get to know him before anything happened and that i am no longer into casual sex and coffee
JoshuNoShougai (2:55:29 AM): I bet the overbearing stalker was named Terry.
JoshuNoShougai (2:55:45 AM): Racism is so fucking ignorant.
JoshuNoShougai (2:55:57 AM): How profoundly stupid does one have to be?
COrPsys2000 (2:56:10 AM): nope Rich aka Rich20FL… i have pretty much given up on the online dating game
JoshuNoShougai (2:56:30 AM): OMG, I almost messaged Rich20FL . .
COrPsys2000 (2:56:37 AM): dont do it
JoshuNoShougai (2:56:44 AM): Thanks for the heads up on him- I’ll pull ‘em off my buddy list.\
COrPsys2000 (2:56:45 AM): !!!
JoshuNoShougai (2:57:21 AM): *gone*
JoshuNoShougai (2:57:55 AM): Stay away from a guy named Terry- a music student in central FL.
JoshuNoShougai (2:58:33 AM): He did everything he could to make me “enjoy his company”.
COrPsys2000 (2:58:47 AM): i was talking to him online one day and he seemed really cool…. so he called me (He sounded as if he had a speach impediment) but i thought thats ok he is sweet…. a mo. later we met so we could hang out in person… at picnic island… we were talking and….
COrPsys2000 (3:00:34 AM): he started moving closer to me and groping me… i was like what are you doin… he said im sorry… andi shrugged it off…. later we went to his place to watch a movie and he came over and trapped me… and groped mee some more…. i said no atleat 10 times… but he kept going…
JoshuNoShougai (3:01:22 AM): My friend Jason had to threaten to kill him before he stopped stalking him @ work.
COrPsys2000 (3:01:40 AM): i wont lie ima n average guy you get messed with enough somethin is bound to happen… and it did…. long story short that was my first and last one night stand
COrPsys2000 (3:02:21 AM): i was tested 3 mo later and again after 6 mo…
JoshuNoShougai (3:02:35 AM): It’s all water under the bridge.
JoshuNoShougai (3:04:00 AM): I don’t blame you for the tests. I was tested because of my ex’s love for guys. .
COrPsys2000 (3:04:06 AM): we still talked … i felt bad that it happened… i didn’t want to be like every other fuk em’ and leave ass hole out ther… and one day he was like are you cheating on me…. i was like what we are not together… this type of psycho crap went on for about 8 mo….
JoshuNoShougai (3:04:25 AM): oh wow.
COrPsys2000 (3:04:59 AM): told my luck sux!
COrPsys2000 (3:05:00 AM): hehe
JoshuNoShougai (3:05:22 AM): Change your mind, change your world, babe.
JoshuNoShougai (3:05:38 AM): That’s what I’m hoping for, anyway *lol*
COrPsys2000 (3:05:40 AM): ???huh??? explain
JoshuNoShougai (3:06:03 AM): Without getting to spiritual or anything . .
JoshuNoShougai (3:06:29 AM): I believe that every thought and word . . is like a “prayer” . . to whoever God is . .
JoshuNoShougai (3:06:39 AM): or spirit . . or fill in the blank . .
JoshuNoShougai (3:06:51 AM): and I believe that force always says yes. .
JoshuNoShougai (3:07:14 AM): So, by changing one’s thoughts . . one can change the world.
JoshuNoShougai (3:07:31 AM): All of that “Peace begins with me” stuff. .
COrPsys2000 (3:07:39 AM): i dont follow….
COrPsys2000 (3:08:29 AM): sorry…im not to religious… used to be strict mormon till they turned there back on my family
JoshuNoShougai (3:08:34 AM): I think that when things happen in my life- it is because I have subconsiously requested and/or needed that experience.
COrPsys2000 (3:09:10 AM): well i did crave somone you truely cared for me…
COrPsys2000 (3:10:14 AM): and he did… just way to much too soon
COrPsys2000 (3:10:22 AM): you know…
JoshuNoShougai (3:10:43 AM): In my own life, I see so many times I think to myself “I want this, but I’ll never have it” or “Wouldn’t it be nice if . . .” Instead of believeing that I can have it . .and I’m worthy of it.
JoshuNoShougai (3:10:53 AM): He didn’t respect your personal space.
COrPsys2000 (3:12:12 AM): i have the same problem… i always say… I want… What if… It would be nice… instead of… I will … I am …. etc…
JoshuNoShougai (3:12:25 AM): My Dad is a hard-core conservative christian minister . . and my Mom is his sidekick. So, I know what growing up in a strict religious home is like.
JoshuNoShougai (3:13:05 AM): LOL I came out on September 9, 2001 . . two days before the world blew up.
JoshuNoShougai (3:13:10 AM): Of course, I was to blame.
JoshuNoShougai (3:13:11 AM):
JoshuNoShougai (3:14:21 AM): You know, I’m really enjoying our conversation.
JoshuNoShougai (3:14:48 AM): It’s been a while since I’ve chatted with a nice guy via IM.
JoshuNoShougai (3:17:04 AM): ?
COrPsys2000 (3:17:05 AM): i known who i was since i was 9 and have been out since 11 except parents… few yrs later dad died (never told him, he would have disowned me on his death bed)… shortly after mom came (WOW what a surprise… not something i wanna have in common with mom… hehe)… and about a yr ago when i moved out i told my mom and told her not to tell my sisters … and that i would do it on my own time… i told one sis about 3 mo ago and she flipped… so as you can imagine it was easy to reverse (ppl beleive only what they want to)… too scared to tell the other sis because my neice is my life….
JoshuNoShougai (3:17:45 AM): awwww.
JoshuNoShougai (3:18:26 AM): That would be something very interesting to have in common with your mother.
COrPsys2000 (3:18:56 AM): so that is my out story… its pretty much if your a friend or gay yourself you know… if not you would never guess…. hehe
COrPsys2000 (3:19:05 AM): it is
COrPsys2000 (3:19:24 AM): she wants me to take her to a club for her first time ever
JoshuNoShougai (3:19:38 AM): How cute!
COrPsys2000 (3:19:58 AM): lol… maybe not… it sort of creepy to me
JoshuNoShougai (3:20:43 AM): Well, realize that she’s a beautiful person, too. . . and she longs for what you do . . . There’s so much common ground.
JoshuNoShougai (3:20:52 AM): @ the very least- go dancing with your mother.
JoshuNoShougai (3:21:01 AM): It’ll be something you remember for the rest of your life.
COrPsys2000 (3:21:08 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (3:21:16 AM):
JoshuNoShougai (3:21:27 AM): ^_~
JoshuNoShougai (3:22:38 AM): lol- as if you should listen to some weirdo on the other end of your computer screen.
JoshuNoShougai (3:23:54 AM): You know, David, I really would like to see a picture of you- just so I know what face to imagine is looking @ the screen.
COrPsys2000 (3:24:07 AM): hehe… i will take her to the club… but her reasoning is her and her partner just broke up and she is on the prowl…. not something i realy want to see… ya know? lol…
JoshuNoShougai (3:24:27 AM): MAMMA ON THE PROWL!!!!
JoshuNoShougai (3:24:31 AM): Yeah, I understand!
COrPsys2000 (3:24:32 AM): lol
JoshuNoShougai (3:24:32 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (3:25:11 AM): omg your chat lingo is too cute
JoshuNoShougai (3:25:29 AM): What? *blush*
JoshuNoShougai (3:25:52 AM): THANK GOD you actually know the appropriate use of the word “too” !
JoshuNoShougai (3:26:14 AM): Sorry, but it annoys me when folks use the wrong “to” or “too” or “two”
COrPsys2000 (3:27:35 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (3:28:22 AM): i am an Email Technical support for a major company… i must know my P’s and Q’s among other things
COrPsys2000 (3:28:44 AM):
JoshuNoShougai (3:28:56 AM): Well, I like that.
COrPsys2000 (3:29:29 AM): :B <--- feel like a geek now!!!
JoshuNoShougai (3:29:38 AM): WHY????
JoshuNoShougai (3:30:35 AM): You are sooooo NOT a geek.
JoshuNoShougai (3:30:42 AM): Geeks can't be this cute.
COrPsys2000 (3:30:47 AM): ty
COrPsys2000 (3:32:10 AM): brb
JoshuNoShougai (3:32:17 AM): Okay.
COrPsys2000 (3:34:12 AM): you there
JoshuNoShougai (3:34:36 AM): Of course.
COrPsys2000 (3:34:54 AM): cool!
JoshuNoShougai (3:36:21 AM): Are you?
COrPsys2000 (3:37:09 AM): i will say that i am an outgoing person when i am in a crowed... but i am shy and quiet one on one in person... sort of awkward ora... but once a person gets to know i get more comfortable and more outgoing and spoken around them
JoshuNoShougai (3:37:55 AM): I'm better with one-on-one than I am with groups . . unless have have a few friends in the group.
JoshuNoShougai (3:38:22 AM): I can blab and blab all day-- but I feel insecure when I start talking about who I am . . or want I want in life . .etc.
COrPsys2000 (3:39:25 AM): it is my teddy bear method: be in the spot light (it is magnetic) but be real and honest to someone one on one... (i am really shy at first-Honest)
JoshuNoShougai (3:39:55 AM): Well, it's cool with me.
COrPsys2000 (3:40:21 AM):
COrPsys2000 (3:40:31 AM): email addy?
COrPsys2000 (3:40:38 AM): i will send you a pic
JoshuNoShougai (3:41:05 AM): sanesolutions@earthlink.net
JoshuNoShougai (3:41:20 AM): ^_^
COrPsys2000 (3:41:47 AM): (:
JoshuNoShougai (3:41:55 AM): *clicks send and receive 1,000 times*
COrPsys2000 (3:42:46 AM): Hold your horses! hehe
JoshuNoShougai (3:42:53 AM): lol!
JoshuNoShougai (3:42:58 AM): Okay, I'll hold.
COrPsys2000 (3:45:11 AM): sent
JoshuNoShougai (3:45:19 AM): checking in 5
JoshuNoShougai (3:45:20 AM): 4
JoshuNoShougai (3:45:24 AM): you get the point
COrPsys2000 (3:45:34 AM): lol
JoshuNoShougai (3:46:15 AM): You are VERY handsome!
COrPsys2000 (3:46:31 AM): lol... TY... you are too
JoshuNoShougai (3:47:37 AM): Maybe it's time to visit the eye clinic, dear.
JoshuNoShougai (3:47:39 AM): lol
JoshuNoShougai (3:48:01 AM): ^_^ I'll take all the compliments I can get.
COrPsys2000 (3:48:38 AM): dont say that besides i am practically blind... but lenses or glasses gimme better than 20/20 vision
COrPsys2000 (3:49:26 AM): your pics remind me of a guy i sort of had a crush on in school
JoshuNoShougai (3:49:57 AM): Well, I'm glad you like my pics.
COrPsys2000 (3:50:40 AM): grrr...how yoooouuuu doin!
COrPsys2000 (3:50:43 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (3:51:43 AM): and your profile is awsome as well...
JoshuNoShougai (3:52:18 AM): ^_^ I'm still looking @ your picture. It's nice to know the cute face that goes with the beautiful personality.
COrPsys2000 (3:52:50 AM): i must mention i have 11 peircings (8 in ears and nothing below the neck) and three tattoos on my fore arms
JoshuNoShougai (3:53:44 AM): Well, if I run out of space on my bulletin board, I know who to tack things to. It's cool.
COrPsys2000 (3:54:16 AM): lol
JoshuNoShougai (3:54:34 AM): Sorry, that was 4:00 AM humor.
COrPsys2000 (3:54:57 AM): I just wanted my tongue peirced and a small tattoo at first... but dang it is addicting
JoshuNoShougai (3:55:55 AM): I could just picture you waking up at 3:00 AM going "Oh my GOD - I NEED A PIERCING"
COrPsys2000 is idle at 3:56:02 AM.
JoshuNoShougai (3:56:02 AM): It's all good.
COrPsys2000 is no longer idle at 3:56:43 AM.
COrPsys2000 (3:56:46 AM): no im done now
COrPsys2000 (3:56:51 AM): hehe
JoshuNoShougai (3:57:18 AM): brb making a quick snack.
JoshuNoShougai (4:00:20 AM): Prosciutto, Provolone, and Pickels- on a hoagie roll.
COrPsys2000 (4:02:51 AM): Pros-cu-toe? WHAT????
JoshuNoShougai (4:03:27 AM): I don't know, really, I'm just starting into this whole gourmet thing . .
COrPsys2000 (4:03:34 AM): lol
JoshuNoShougai (4:03:35 AM): I think it's a prime cut of ham.
COrPsys2000 (4:03:45 AM): ok
COrPsys2000 (4:04:07 AM): i think i know what you are talking about it is a spicy ham right?
JoshuNoShougai (4:04:58 AM): I think some proscuito can be spicy . . but this is just a firm piece of meat . .
JoshuNoShougai (4:05:08 AM): like zero marbling in it.
COrPsys2000 (4:06:13 AM): lol
JoshuNoShougai (4:07:16 AM): Whatever I ate- it was pretty tasty
JoshuNoShougai (4:07:42 AM): Yum for Proscuitto!
COrPsys2000 is idle at 4:08:15 AM.
JoshuNoShougai (4:09:28 AM): So, what are you up to?
COrPsys2000 is no longer idle at 4:10:56 AM.
COrPsys2000 (4:10:57 AM): talkin to my roomates
JoshuNoShougai (4:11:28 AM): Cool.
COrPsys2000 (4:14:07 AM): i need to go out side... for a bit
COrPsys2000 (4:14:47 AM): idea... did you wanna talk on phone??? ( i cant bite through a phone line) hehe
JoshuNoShougai (4:14:47 AM): Do what you like, babe. I'm about to go to bed, anyway.
JoshuNoShougai (4:14:59 AM): Sure, we can talk.
COrPsys2000 (4:15:28 AM): :'-( bed time?... oh, great... me call you or you call me?
COrPsys2000 (4:15:35 AM):
JoshuNoShougai (4:16:02 AM): If you own a cell phone- it'd be best for you to call me- because I don't own one . .and would pay long distance. .
JoshuNoShougai (4:16:19 AM): If you don't, then I can call you . . or you call me . . it doesn't matter.
COrPsys2000 (4:16:45 AM): you are in luck i got a cell
JoshuNoShougai (4:16:59 AM): I thought you would.
JoshuNoShougai (4:17:07 AM): 863-471-1878
JoshuNoShougai (4:17:13 AM): and be aware I'm fighting off a cold.
COrPsys2000 (4:17:24 AM): where is that located?
COrPsys2000 (4:17:28 AM): 863?
JoshuNoShougai (4:17:36 AM): Central FL - Sebring.
COrPsys2000 (4:17:56 AM): oh yeah... hehe... the school right?
JoshuNoShougai (4:18:16 AM): School?
COrPsys2000 (4:18:18 AM): or not... lol... i am gettin tired...
JoshuNoShougai (4:18:54 AM): lol
COrPsys2000 (4:19:17 AM): i call now?
JoshuNoShougai (4:19:24 AM): Whenever you're ready.
COrPsys2000 (4:19:36 AM): k
COrPsys2000 (4:19:42 AM): ......
COrPsys2000 is idle at 4:20:49 AM.
COrPsys2000 signed off at 4:39:05 AM.

We talked on the phone until 6:30 a.m. . . We covered every topic imaginable. Life, Death, Friends, Family. . you name it, we discussed it.

I remember being so thrilled that he was young and cute. I mean, a thoughtful guy . . young and cute . . I had hit the jackpot.

I’m still winning.

More about our beginnings tomorrow.

Peace.

JoshuNoShougai (11:24:42 PM): Wow . . http://www.latimes.com/features/health/ Lots of good stuff here.
JoshuNoShougai (11:25:20 PM): Hah! One walk and I act like a fitness fanatic. Silly me.
ericmw1 (11:26:00 PM): whats wrong with getting excited about it? keep it up!
JoshuNoShougai (11:26:14 PM): Good point.
JoshuNoShougai (11:26:15 PM): Taken.
JoshuNoShougai (11:26:16 PM): ^_^

Heh. . . It’s so easy to over-rationalize life. He’s right! WHY NOT? I mean . . Why not be excited about something positive in my life? I’ve certainly been in a tizzy about the negative.

I’ve only known him online for a few days, but he’s already made a lasting contribution to my life that I refuse to forget.

I’ve been so disillusioned- feeling like my passion is gone.

Perhaps it’s time to make some more.

Eric is a great guy, and fantastic fundraiser.  He is raising money to help us fight AIDS, and will be cycling through the streets of San Francisco!   So, help him out!  Get off your ass and join the tons of people who have already donated!  Go here.  http://www.aidslifecycle.org/1550/

Oh, and by the way, boys. He’s single. Check him out- he’s hot! hahaha! http://www.biggercity.com/personals/view.aspx?id=44738

Peace.